Whether it’s for your wife, girlfriend or some other significant female in your life, when their birthday rolls around, you’ll want to make use of one of these long, ‘Happy Birthday’ messages for her. 

Sure, you could try to get away with just a short and sweet ‘Happy Birthday’ message on their birthday card or Facebook wall. But, for your significant other, the most important person in your life and your favorite person in the world, it’s well worth taking the time to write them a long, emotional, romantic message that lets them know how truly special they are to you.

It may seem an arduous task to put this long birthday message together, but trust us, it will be worth it once your special lady reads your birthday message! What’s more, it’s not a difficult process anymore to come up with a long birthday message, because we have done it for you!

Simply read through the birthday messages below and choose the one that best suits your wife or girlfriend.

Make any minor changes you might need – you can even mix and match some of the best elements of the birthday messages together – then write your message inside a birthday card, on a gift tag, as a text message, email or even as your Facebook or other social media status.

However you choose to use your chosen birthday message, we just know she’s going to love it!

Long Birthday Messages For Your Wife Or Girlfriend

1. To the most important person in my life and my favorite person in the world, Happy Birthday! We’ve seen many birthdays together and each year I am blown away when I think about how much you mean to me and how happy you make me. My life would never be the same without you and I feel blessed and lucky that you choose to spend your life with me by your side. Here’s to a very happy birthday for you my darling, and all my best hopes and wishes for a wonderful year ahead.

2. Never a day goes past when I don’t thank my lucky stars that I have you in my life. You are the center of my world and deserve to be cherished and adored every single day and maybe even just a little bit more today, on your birthday. You are an amazing woman, kind, caring, sweet and yet also someone who knows what she wants in life and isn’t afraid to go out and get it. I admire you so much and look forward to continuing our wonderful journey together. Happy Birthday!

3. Happy Birthday to my wonderful wife/girlfriend. Having you in my life has changed my world around, for the better. I once was lost but now I’m found, and love being on this journey of life with you! You bring so much joy to my life and to the lives of everyone around you. You deserve to celebrate and be celebrated on this day, your birthday, and for every day to come. Happy Birthday!

4. I can’t imagine what my life would be like without you. I’m so lucky that you are such an important part of my life and that you’ve chosen me to continue this journey through life with. Never forget how much you are loved, cherished and adored, and will continue to be for the rest of my days. Enjoy your special day today, Happy Birthday, with love, always.

5. It’s rare for me to put my feelings into words but today, for your birthday, I will try to express just how much you mean to me. You are always on my mind, the thought of your smile makes me smile and your infectious laughter never fails to make me laugh. If I could, I would spend every second of every day with you, but then, you might start to get sick of me! I love your generous spirit and your loving nature and I am so proud to call you my girlfriend/wife. I hope you have a fabulous birthday today and look forward to celebrating every single birthday with you in the future.

6. People often ask me how I got to be so lucky as to have a woman like you by my side. It’s no secret that I’m ‘punching above my weight’, but I just want you to know that you are so special to me and I feel lucky and blessed to call you my wife/girlfriend. I love everything about you, adore spending time with you and wish you the happiest of birthdays today. Happy Birthday, my love.

7. How did a guy like me end up with a beautiful, talented and resourceful woman such as yourself? It’s one of the great mysteries of the world, but I feel blessed every single day that somehow the stars aligned and made ‘us’ happen. I have never been happier than with you by my side and I hope that our shared happiness together can create the happiest of birthdays for you today. Happy Birthday!

8. Happy birthday to the most important person in my life. Where would we all be without you? We know how much you do for all of us and want you to know that you are truly, truly loved, appreciated and adored by every one of us in the family, but especially by me. Not a day goes by that I don’t thank my lucky stars that I was blessed with such a wonderful life partner. I love doing life with you! Enjoy your special day, you deserve to be celebrated. Happy Birthday!

9. Happy birthday to my favorite person. To say that you mean the world to me is an understatement. You are such a kind and caring soul, a hard worker with a wonderful smile and sense of humor. I simply adore everything about you and feel lucky and blessed that you have chosen me to continue this journey through life with. Have the happiest of birthdays today, I look forward to celebrating with you tonight.

10. A special person deserves a special celebration! You are such a special person who brings so much light and joy into my life. I honestly can’t imagine my life without you. I love being a part of ‘us’ with you and wish you the happiest of birthdays today.

11. To my darling, I just want to tell you that you are the light of my life and the most important person in the world to me. I hope you and I will never be far apart and will continue to thrive in our loving relationship. I love doing life with you and even growing old with you! Enjoy your special day today, you deserve it – Happy Birthday, my love.

12. Whenever you walk into the room my heart still skips a beat, even after all this time! You have a spell over me that seems to make me adore you more and more each day, just when I thought I couldn’t possibly adore you more than I already do! The love that I feel for you is constant but I want you to know that I’ve got an extra big wave of love for you today on your birthday! Have a wonderful day celebrating! Happy birthday, my darling.

13. Having a partner like you, who is loving and caring, means that I must be the luckiest man on the planet. You are so sweet and beautiful and always manage to make me smile. You are the center of my world and the love of my life, my life wouldn’t be complete if it didn’t have you in it. Wishing you a happy birthday today and I hope that your day will be as sweet as you are. All my love xxx

14. Some people are lucky enough to find their soulmate to journey through life with – I am blessed to be one of those people! Words cannot express just how much you mean to me. You are the peanut butter to my jelly, the salt to my pepper and the honey to my bees – there should never be one without the other. Your smile lights up my world and your laugh is the highlight of my day. Here’s to many more years to come and many more birthdays to celebrate. I love doing life with you, happy birthday!

15. Happy birthday to the smartest, funniest, most beautiful person in the whole world! We have been through so much together. You have seen my strengths, my flaws and all of my in-betweens, yet you still choose to stay by my side. I am so grateful to have you in my life. You are beyond kind, caring and patient with me and I just want you to know that it doesn’t go unnoticed and you are very much appreciated by me. Thanks for sticking by me. You are truly a rare find and I am proud to have you in my life!

16. Happy birthday to the one that I love! I can’t imagine my world without you in it and not a day goes by that I do not count my blessings that you chose me to be your life partner. We have so much to look forward to in our future together and celebrating birthdays is a big part of that! So, happy birthday to the woman who makes me happy every day, whose smile lights up a room and who completes my life. I love being your life partner.

17. If there were a thousand ways to love you, I would happily find them all. If I had the opportunity to live my life a thousand times, I would choose to spend them all with you. Even if I said it a thousand times, I don’t think words could ever express how much you mean to me. You are my life, my love and my inspiration. Every day is a beautiful day with you by my side. I will always be grateful for meeting you and for the relationship that we have built and nurtured together. I love you so much – Happy Birthday!

18. I hope that all of your birthday wishes come true, but, more than anything, I hope that we continue on this journey of life together – I love doing life with you! You bring so much joy into my life and into the lives of everyone around you. Your energy and enthusiasm for life is infectious and a big part of my happiness. Don’t ever change, I love you so much just the way you are! Have a wonderful birthday and a great day of celebrations.

19. Happy Birthday to the woman who still makes my heart skip a beat and gives me butterflies whenever we’re in the same room. Even after all these years you still have such an effect on me! You light up my world and bring me such joy and happiness, I feel so blessed to call you my wife/girlfriend. Please enjoy your birthday today, I know I’ll have fun celebrating with you!

20. My Sweetheart, you are a gift to the world and your birthday calls for celebration! I hope this birthday marks a new and special chapter in your life full of joy and happiness. May you look back at it with fondness for all the wonderful gifts and the people you enjoyed celebrating with. You should find great joy in the fact that you are loved so much by so many, but especially by me, your loving husband.

21. Happy Birthday to my darling wife. We have been through so much together. Mostly ups, sometimes downs, but through everything we have had to endure, we have done it together. Your grit and determination to plow on through life despite hard times, is an inspiration to me and to all. You are strong, you are kind and you are beautiful in every way. I cannot imagine a world without you by my side. Enjoy your special day, heaven knows you have earned it! Let’s celebrate together, happy birthday, my love.

22. Not long ago in this very galaxy, a baby girl was born. She grew into the most beautiful woman both inside and out. Her smile lights up any room, her laughter is ridiculously contagious and her brain power is superior to almost everyone she comes across. Somehow I was lucky enough for her to choose me to journey through life with, and what a journey it’s been! We’ve experienced so much together and I can’t wait for our next adventure together. Happy Birthday my darling – I truly love being a part of ‘us’ with you and love the excitement and joy you bring to my life.

23. To a woman who truly is one in a million, happy birthday! You are such a special part of my life. I feel happy and grateful each day waking up knowing that you are there right by my side. I love everything about you from your beautiful smile to your cold hands and feet! I enjoy spending every spare minute with you, whether we’re out hiking, grocery shopping or vegging out watching Netflix! Just being near you is all I need for total happiness and contentment! Happy birthday, my darling.

24. What can you say to wish such an important person a happy birthday? I can only try, and if I manage to express only half of what I feel, at least you might start to get the idea of how much you mean to me. You are like the sunshine after rain, when a rainbow can be seen in the sky. There is something mystical and magical about you and you color my world with your luminous smile. Just knowing that I am allowed to kiss and hold you brings such a warm feeling to my heart and a smile to my face whenever I think of you. I feel as though I am the luckiest man in the world to be able to call you my partner and I will always be so grateful for ‘us’. You make me happy just by being you. I hope you have a happy birthday today and, if I make you even half as happy as you make me, then we can look forward to a long and happy relationship together.

25. To my darling wife/girlfriend. For your birthday I wanted to tell you just how much you mean to me, but words don’t come easily to me, so I’ve borrowed some ideas from the masters of romantic writing.

To quote Elton John, ‘I hope you don’t mind that I put down in words, how wonderful life is while you’re in the world’.  

From James Taylor, ‘How sweet it is to be loved by you!’

‘I’ve got sunshine on a cloudy day’, with credit to The Temptations.

The Beatles helped me with this part: ‘And when I touch you I feel happy inside. It’s such a feeling that my love, I can’t hide’.

Billy Joel helps to remind you that ‘I love you just the way you are’, while the late Olivia Newton-John knows that I’m ‘hopelessly devoted to you’.

And as Elvis will tell you, ‘only fools rush in, but I can’t help falling in love with you.’

You are the light of my life and the center of my world. I can’t imagine my life without you in it and I cherish every moment that we spend together.

Have the happiest of happy birthdays today and enjoy being celebrated for being the wonderful person that you are.

How sweet it is to be loved by you!

26. I know I don’t tell you often enough just how much you mean to me, but it’s not because I take you for granted or because I don’t notice how much you do for me. Just by being you and by being near me you bring so much happiness into my life and I am forever grateful that our worlds collided and brought us together. You put a twinkle in my eye and a spring in my step and it makes me so happy to know that I get to celebrate this, and every future, birthday with you. Here’s to you on your special day, let’s make it a night to remember!

27. Wishing you health and happiness for the years ahead – with me as your husband, how could you go wrong? Here’s hoping you have a great time celebrating your birthday, I know how much you’ve looked forward to this day. I enjoy spending every possible moment with you and look forward to as many moments as you will allow me in the future. From our deep, philosophical conversations to our light hearted ‘in jokes’, I just love everything about the way your brain works and everything there is to love about you. You are a truly special person and I feel privileged to be able to call you my wife.

Writing a birthday message to a special woman in your life doesn’t have to be hard. Try to make it as personal as you can and reference one or two things that are unique about her or that you really like or love about her.

Remember you can mix and match parts of the above messages to suit her better, and maybe even create a really long message by combining your favorite elements. 

Whatever birthday message you use, as long as it’s heartfelt and written with good intentions, she’s going to love the fact that you’ve taken the time to write such a long happy birthday message for her.